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Where can a group of married girls go in Los Angeles for dinner and dancing?
We want a fun atmosphere, but don’t really want to go somewhere that is totally in the club scene, just a fun restaurant that maybe opens up a dance floor later on in the evening.
I can’t really reccomend any of the places that turn into a dance club later in the evening. They are usually overpriced, bad service, and plain food. I think they are more interested in making money off of the bar than cooking a good meal.
There is the Falcon that has great food, and has a hopping bar scene as the night goes on. Same for Firefly in Studio City. Both are very swank.
You could go to the Giesha House in Hollywood (Crazy fun restaurant), and then hit up one of the clubs in the area. There are several. I believe Nacional and Element (I’m not positive)
Check out www.la.com. They have a list of dance clubs and the age group/scene/music/ that goes there.
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